To whom we have too good children, unable even to think of harming anyone, we are especially concerned that they do not know how to defend themselves against a situation of bullying.
Bullying is not a "children's thing" and although it may seem that it is not possible, it occurs early in childhood; There are registered cases of children from three years to adolescence. Teaching them to act in the face of bullying is key to prevent them from being victims of bullying.
Bullying is undoubtedly a form of violence. A problem that we must address from all angles with prevention strategies from the family and greater support from the school environment. Some strategies that we can address from home to help our children are the following:
Identify inappropriate behaviors
Do not miss situations that could lead to something worse. We must talk with the children so that they are able to identify and communicate any inappropriate behavior by his classmates.
The problem with too good children is that there are situations that may seem normal to them, that do not bother them. They have to know that there are comments and actions that are not right, even if it seems silly (like hiding a case or throwing paper balls) can be signs of possible harassment.
Teach them to say NO
It is difficult to teach children when many adults are not able to say no. But it is a very important lesson for a lifetime, and better do it when they are young.
One of the tricks of those is the assurance that his victim, motivated by fear, will never contradict him. It is good that Children know how to stand up to situations they don't like. They must learn to say "NO" loud and clear.
Teach defense strategies
We don't talk about teaching him to punch, of course. Violence is not fixed with more violence. We talked about teaching him to defend himself without exposing himself to being physically abused.
Talk at home with your children about bullying and what they should do if they suffer. Here, three key tips that will help you defend yourself against your aggressor:
- Ignore the stalker: Do not try to face it or counterattack it; That reinforces his intimidating behavior.
- Avoid being alone: Always be accompanied by other children or teachers, especially in the yard, in the bathroom, at lunchtime, etc.
- Report immediately from the situation to teachers, teachers and classmates.
Strengthen self-confidence
There are children unable to kill a fly, withdrawn, shy, that can become an easy target for bullies, but this does not necessarily mean that they are. No child deserves to be a victim of a stalker.
Increasing self-confidence, through our actions and the way we speak to you, will allow you to strengthen your self-esteem and improve socialization with your peers.
Sometimes you need to change your circle of relationships by looking for an environment in which you feel more secure and understood by your parents.
Talk to your son
The Communication between parents and children It is key for children to feel in a safe environment when they tell us their things.
Talking to them frequently, listening to them without judging, or minimizing their problems will make our children come to us with confidence when faced with a possible bullying situation.
