A mother shows on her Twitter account, the WhatsApp messages that she has sent to the parents of a school partner of her son, denouncing the vexations to which the other child submits, calling him 'butterfly' and 'dove'.
Part of the message "There is a child who messes with my son every day ... and I don't know how to act without messing her up" to reproduce the unilateral conversation he had, since he has not yet received a reply.
They are mother's reflections on overprotection, respect, education ... some fears with which it is easy to identify, although we do not agree, in any way, with its conclusion because a problem is not solved with violence.
How far does a joke and harassment begin?
Undoubtedly, it is one of the most common terrors among parents: that your son arrives from school crying, sad every day, because he is the object of other people's teasing simply because yes, because he does not fit in the established tribe or because there are children to whom I like to push.
In Babies and more Ten key experts to combat and prevent bullyingSo it is difficult not to understand why Deborah, a mother from Seville who goes through the difficult swallow of seeing her 11-year-old child suffer, does not know how to act and does what she feels like a mother.
As can be read in the WhatsApp messages that he sent to the parents of his 'alleged accuser' and that she has reproduced in her whatsapp account.
There is a child who messes with my son every day for months ... I do not know how to act without making observations too protective ... this is the only thing that has occurred to me. pic.twitter.com/VVfYmsRIpv
- Debi (@DebiQuilla) January 30, 2019
Of course, it ends up reaching the next resolution, after knowing that it was no use for the teacher to talk with the other child, since "does not enter into reasons":
"... my son has permission, moreover, his mother encourages him to prove to his son that he is a person with the same right to deserve respect as others based on hosts."
And all this, after explaining to the other parents that:
"I have educated my son by teaching him that physical violence does not lead anywhere, that all people must be respected regardless of their physical, intellectual capacity or sexual tendency ... and this makes my son look helpless against his attacks ".
Screenshot @DebiQuilla I cannot agree with your conclusion in any way, although luckily I have never found myself in your situation.
I suppose that, if it were, the first thing I would do would be to talk to the teachers and, if as in your case, nothing is solved, I imagine that I would file a complaint with the direction of the school and, if it does not work, before the inspection of Education.
In Babies and more How to educate our children in the era of 'haters' to combat school cyberbullyingBut I also know that it is easy to speak in theory. Living your child's pain every day has to be very different. In fact, its publication has received many critical and supportive comments.
Although I repeat, I don't agree at all with his decision to use violence, You also have to understand the fear that something serious could happen to your child, seeing the horrible outcomes in which some cases of harassed children end.
In Babies and more How to educate our children in peace and non-violence Fear is free and a mother's love knows no limits (or almost).
Of course, I can not agree more with the assessments that this mother makes to the reactions that have caused her tweets, where she explains why she has made her words public:
If I put this here it was because I am only one more mother who is lost and confused between "doing the right thing" and "doing what makes my son stop feeling bad"
- Debi (@DebiQuilla) February 1, 2019
Several media outlets have contacted me, including a large audience program that wants to make a confrontation with the child's mother.
- Debi (@DebiQuilla) February 1, 2019
I want to say that I don't think this helps to improve my child's situation because of what I have refused.
I will not do a circus of a situation that affects my son.
- Debi (@DebiQuilla) February 1, 2019
I'm tweeting, I like this ... I laugh, I cry, I interact whenever I can.
I will not do a circus of a situation that affects my son.
- Debi (@DebiQuilla) February 1, 2019
I'm tweeting, I like this ... I laugh, I cry, I interact whenever I can.
And he ends by saying that:
I will not do a circus of a situation that affects my son.
- Debi (@DebiQuilla) February 1, 2019
I'm tweeting, I like this ... I laugh, I cry, I interact whenever I can.
I will not do a circus of a situation that affects my son.
- Debi (@DebiQuilla) February 1, 2019
I'm tweeting, I like this ... I laugh, I cry, I interact whenever I can.
Photos | @DebiQuilla
