We have often addressed the issue of sexual intercourse during pregnancy, but this time we want to focus on the sexual desire of man during pregnancy. What happens at this stage of the relationship? Are there significant changes?
In general, we can say that each man and each couple are a different world, so there will be many cases. But this is what we can find about it during pregnancy: an increase in sexual desire, a decrease in it or a stable situation compared to other periods.
You may not notice differences from other stages, although this is not usual, since the physical changes in the mother and the hormonal revolution that occurs during pregnancy, as well as the inconvenience of the state, cause variations in the practice of intercourse.
However, these changes usually affect women more, but men can also experience their sexuality in a different way and we dedicate the following points to it.
Increased sexual desire during pregnancy
The fact that the woman has a different appearance, with more bulky breasts and a growing belly, can cause many men an increase in sexual desire. Another thing is that these desires are reciprocated, because women can also go through very different situations.
If there are no risks and the woman does not experience the discomforts of pregnancy that can reduce the desire to make love, then it is likely that at this stage you will experience full and active sexuality.
The fact that contraceptive methods are not used can also contribute to the disinhibition of men and women, which can lead to increased frequency in relationships.
Remember that, at the end of pregnancy, making love can bring birth naturally when it does not arrive, since the sperm contains prostaglandins, which ripen or soften the cervix. In addition, orgasms cause contractions in the uterus.
Descent of male sexual desire
Conversely, there may be many factors that cause a decrease in sexual desire in man. We leave some of the most frequent, although we must bear in mind that it is a temporary situation (fortunately) and often the result of ignorance.
It is common for women to reduce sexual desire at this stage, which directly affects and of course the male libido. When one of the parties is not receptive (they can affect nausea, pain, fatigue ...), the other can finally "give up." This situation is normal and should not lead to tensions between the couple, which is avoided through fluid communication.
As in many men the new body of the woman is very attractive, others feel a certain rejection. Perhaps in this they have a lot to do with the "magazine" bodies that little resemble reality. But a pregnant woman can be very beautiful with her new curves. She will feel sexy if the future dad makes him feel it.
It is common for man to have afraid of hurting the baby. Regarding the baby, do not worry about him, he is well protected in the womb by the muscular layer and the amniotic fluid and what we have to try is not to crush the mother's belly because it can harm her and cause discomfort. Which brings us to the next point.
Making love does not harm the baby, who is well protected in the womb, but avoid crushing the pregnant woman's belly
Many men fear harming the mother because of that new volume they are not used to. There are certain positions that are more recommended for making love at this stage without the woman feeling uncomfortable. A slight pressure does not matter, but if you press your belly tightly it can hurt. So as not to crush the belly in the third trimester, nothing better than sideways intercourse, cats, sitting, standing ... You can put imagination, there are many ways not to press the belly and the man will feel more secure.
The nerves for the arrival of the baby they can affect the libido of women and also of men. No one is prepared for paternity, and excessive responsibility, fears ... can make sexual appetite decrease.
The man in these cases has to share his fears or feelings with his partner and the woman has to be understanding and encourage him to speak. As we say, luckily it is a problem that is overcome after the birth of the baby, when it returns to a physical and psychic state of "normalcy."
But we will banish the myths, not only can you have sex during pregnancy but they are highly recommended if there is no contraindication.
And although we know that practicing sex during pregnancy is beneficial for everyone, it should be noted that if the doctor has indicated that there is a risk for pregnancy and the mother is at rest it will be necessary to abstain and limit the desire.
Fortunately, pregnancy does not last forever and the sexual desire of the father during pregnancy It is limited to those months. And although with the arrival of the baby it is likely that you forget for a time that you are also lovers besides parents, you will soon enjoy satisfactory sexuality again.
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