I have always liked Christmas, it is for me the favorite part of the year and when I really enjoy walking around the city, the lights, the atmosphere, the music, the cold (as long as there is one). I know that for many they are just a few more dates in the calendar in which everyone is determined to sell you something, but for me it is much more and there are many memories that these dates bring me when I was like my children.
That is why we have never stopped celebrating Christmas, it is true that perhaps not as now, but we always celebrate it. But there are also those who do not tell you these holidays or bring bad memories and yet with the arrival of their children they have returned to celebrate them, if only for them. That is why today we want to know if that is your case, if Christmas has changed with the arrival of your children.
Have you celebrated Christmas again with the arrival of your children?
Last week we asked you if Do you think there is still obstetric violence in childbirth?
We have had many personal responses and anecdotes and Here are some of them:
ines93 told us:
Of course. There is. Going to give birth is like a raffle, if you are lucky you are not mistreated / humiliated / hurt ... and in countries like Uruguay (underdeveloped) it is much more widespread ... they take advantage of people's ignorance and do what they want
Amare replied:
I don't like to talk about obstetric violence because I think it's a very strong one, it's how to say that someone hurts you with premeditation. But there is a great lack of information, communication and empathy. Many times professionals for fear of future allegations of negligence, pressure from hospital directors, for lack of human and material resources, make decisions that are not the best for women and children. Many hospital protocols skip the recommendations of the WHO, because their directors do not even know them, they worry more about the numbers coming out. An example is that in my hospital you are asked to sign consent for the epidural and yet to put on oxytocin, get an episiotomy, use a suction cup to remove the child ... you are not asked for consent or you can not object. There is a lot of impact on reducing the number of C-sections, but at the cost of what? of more instrumentalized deliveries and sequelae for the mother (which then nobody is responsible for that you stay as you stay). In Spain there are very good midwives, very well prepared, but as soon as the gynecologists enter (be they men or women) I start to shiver because they go to the "book".
Carogatti said:
Definitely yes! At least here in Argentina. It is very sad how women and babies are being treated.
miriamsanz replied:
In my case there was no upside down violence they helped me a lot at the time of delivery without devices but with support of all kinds
esgae replied:
I felt like a mere sack of potatoes when the medical staff attended me when I entered the delivery room. No one spoke to me as a person that I am until I burst into tears of pure anguish. Epidural at 3 cm due to lack of information, bag rupture, episiotomy and kristeller maneuver. The only thing that comforts me is that they didn't separate me from my daughter.
Now the new question for this week is now available and remember that you have a week to answer it. Please do so in the "Answers" section and not responding to this entry. I know that I repeat myself, but if you answer here we can not take them into account for next week.
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