Nine situations we live with our children, not suitable for cardiac

Children they make us live incredible moments of happiness, and its spontaneity causes tremendously funny and difficult situations to forget. But let's be honest, how many times does the opposite happen to us?

And there are many daily moments that parents live and are not suitable for cardiac. Moreover, I would say that they paralyze our hearts and sometimes even make us grow old several years. Do you feel identified?

They call you from school

I would dare to say that there is no worse moment for the heart of a mother than listen to the phone and check that they call you from school of your kids. You pounce on the mobile at lightning speed, but with your nerves, you almost fail to press the pick up button.

And while, in thousandths of a second, you try to get ahead of the cause of the call and think: "Is this time at recess? Eating? In class?", "Will you call me to notify me of an accident?", "During breakfast it was fine… could it be that he suddenly got sick?"

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But the worst comes when you pick up the phone, with your heart in your throat, and they ask you: "Hi, are you Fulanito's mother? We'll call you from school to tell you ...". Those moments are eternal!

We already know that the call comes from school (we have the phone number registered in the phone book), so from here I strongly ask the people who are responsible for notifying parents: Run away from formal presentations and get to the point from the beginning!

When your baby doesn't start crying

This is a serious issue that has subtracted me years of life on more than one occasion: the sob spasm. Only those of us who have lived it know how distressing those seconds can be in which your baby does not start to cry, and remains open-mouthed without exhaling a drop of air.

My daughter has suffered sob spasms since she was six or seven months old, and although the episodes have been reduced over time, I still have a hard time witnessing that terrible moment without losing my temper.

His first bump

All parents live with special emotion the moment when our baby is launched to take his first steps. At the beginning we even encourage and encourage those moments of autonomy and independence ... Until your first bump is done!

The scene occurs such that: you observe its unstable walk and smile invaded by the tenderness of this stage. But suddenly, you realize that your baby starts packing and walk faster and without brake. You scream while watching the scene in slow motion, unable to do anything to avoid hitting the ground.

That first bump hurts us more than they do!

The first time your baby falls on the floor

We think that it will never happen to us, but the truth is that no one is perfect and we can all have an oversight whereby our baby falls to the ground.

It happened to me with my daughter, and that day I thought I died. I left her asleep in the center of my bed while I put on my pajamas to go to sleep, but in a matter of seconds and without giving myself time to realize it, My baby woke up and crawled fast to the end of the bed, dropping to the ground.

Fortunately nothing happened to him, but the fault for not having put the security barrier haunted me for days. And it is that never, never, you should underestimate the agility and skills of a baby, no matter how much we think that they are not yet able to do something or believe that they are too sleepy to "roll it".

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His first bike fall

What causes us the fact that our children begin to ride a bike is almost the same as that they learn to walk: Pride and terror in equal parts.

On this occasion, the scene occurs as follows: you hold the bicycle saddle of your child tightly while encouraging him to pedal tirelessly. You are jogging beside him while your child, excited, pedaling and tells you "Let me go now!"

Proud, you let go of the saddle and watch him go straight away ... Until he starts doing this! You cover your mouth with your hands, stifling the scream of panic, and listen to the skidding and then crying.

You run the thirty meters that separate you in less than two seconds, and lift your little one off the ground in anguish over the consequences. Luck that it's just a scratch on the knee, but nobody will give you back the five years of life you've lost in a minute.

Being the "mother of the artist"

How hard it is to be the mother (or father) of the artist! Whether your soccer goalkeeper son, practice dance or debut in your first play, you have to be a special paste to sit in the stands and not die of a heart attack.

I remember the first time I saw my son in a school performance. It was a simple dance in which all the kids had their "moment of glory." As the classmates acted and my son's turn approached, my heart quickened, and when his time came I had to silence the entire auditorium and scream "That's my Boy!".

Lose sight of it a second

Another terrible experience that all parents have ever lived is to lose sight of our child for a moment. Initially you don't know how it could have happened: "But it was in front of my eyes right now!", you exclaim in anguish looking in all possible directions (your head needs to be turned, as in a horror movie).

Despair takes possession of you, and although objectively only thousandths of a second pass, you feel that it is an eternity and you start shouting her name like crazy.

And in this that a little voice at your feet tells you scared: "What's up, mom?". And that's when you look down and find him sitting on the floor playing quietly with his bucket and shovel. For that, and for other things, I hate crowded parks!

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When you leave home for the first time, and you feel it takes to return

And in this comes a day when you get valuable weapons and you entrust your son with his first errand away from home. He is old enough and mature, and he is looking forward to helping out by buying bread or taking out the trash.

"Just go to the corner", you repeat yourself again and again to convince yourself that nothing will happen. But as soon as he leaves the house you quickly look out the window, and although not even ten seconds have passed since he left, you keep looking at the clock and asking your partner in distress: "It takes a long time, don't you think?".

When a while later you hear the bell, The relief you feel is indescribable and you really get to think if it's worth going through something like that for a simple loaf of bread.

That by an oversight, your son almost discovered the secret of Christmas

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How complicated children sometimes put us, especially on those nights where they should sleep like trunks, but they are so nervous that the minimum noise wakes them up. And that's when they almost caught you in fraganti in full work and with the gift in your hands, when you see your life pass before your eyes as if it were frames, and you start looking for a credible excuse to give.

What it feels like when your child turns around in bed and continues to sleep oblivious to everything is indescribable, but what you have sweated in those moments you do not get even in three hours of sauna.

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